WHY do i hate goodbyes?
Never really focused on this simple yet complicated question, why do I hate it, why do I simply hate the word good bye, I think I just hate the feeling I get after it, suppose if you were at a party in the end you say goodbye, its over, go back home, when your friend leaves you,  you say it, I think its because this certain “Goodbye” comes after the happiness, when things end, the journey is over and you have to find something more interesting to do or maybe better to do, 

The word Goodbye leaves my body feeling weird and all tingly, I have said many goodbyes in my life some were just short term, some were long, sometimes I say it just to meet my friend the other day and sometimes I say it for the last time to some one, 

The thing that overwhelms me is the thought that not always you know that this is the last time you say good bye to someone, last time you meet them, hug them, smile with them and sometimes life never gives you a chance to even say good bye, We never really know when it’s our last time that’s why they say live your life to the fullest but can you live everyday to the fullest,guess not, 

I like to believe that our lives are like books, every person is a protagonist in their own book,  having different chapters, some have less chapters and some have really typical long ones and some have moderate ones, I like to satisfy my self by telling my heart when something ends or someone leaves. People are like extra characters in your story they play their part and leave,they get replace by new people who are necessary for your story to move further, every person plays a role in your story, every memory, every adventure, every thing small or big has a huge impact on your story which makes it different from the rest, and to be sad over something or someone is not worth it at all, your extra characters will be replaced by new ones, by new experiences, by new adventures. Don’t worry your story is amazing not just a passing cloud it’s the sky itself, It is majestic, it has a spark.

Will I ever stop hating the word goodbye, can’t actually say yes because I know its something I just like to stay away from, but I know I cant just run away from it, its a part of my story, even my story will have an ending, so let’s just stop stressing and try to live like there is no tomorrow, Try to be happy, make people happy, Spread love and say no to hate.Felt quite happy to get it off my chest, phew, feeling light like Elsa says it in Frozen “Let it go”, then see the magic after it. It is not the end but only a beginning of something more breathtaking, enjoy life, as i said before “Everything has an ending” do it before your story ends, live everyday like a climax scene in a movie.


Author: thegirlinthegreycoat

A girl with big dreams,have a passion for life, complicated and philosophical

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